Well here goes nothing: thus far, my Reddit experience has been suboptimal to say the least. Ghosting seems prevalent.

Somehow, I've made it to the age of 29 with next to no experience of intimacy. Probably because I've prioritised my career and studies for the past 12 years: I've snagged all the Oxbridge degrees, like collecting Pokémon gym badges. Now, I look back with a tinge of remiss but am hoping to change things by turning to the Reddit cesspit in the hope of meeting someone, who can stimulate my physicality and desires buried beneath this veneer of respectability.  Bold and risky to turn to Reddit I know, but I hope you can be my teacher and patient guide.

I am looking for something casual to long term ?FWB but what I value is a mutual connection, where we can challenge each other.   I cherish meaningful conversations so I'd prefer to meet in person over coffee/drinks to see if we resonate on the same frequencies.  I'd like to think that I'm a thoughtful and empathetic person; I maintain a small group of close friends, who should testify to the above.

I am open to discussing any particular kinks: I'm sure we all have our own predilections and I'd love to explore them in a safe environment, where both parties communicate clearly. I am particularly aroused by dominant and assertive ladies: someone who knows what they want in life inside and outside of the bedroom. 

I have an eclectic set of interests and passionate about many things in life. And for completeness:

29 year old, British (East Asian ethnicity) gentleman

190cm, athletic build and physically strong (gym and running regularly)

Disease free and I do not partake in illicit substances.

Cambridge based, can't host but we can sort out the practicalities.  Regularly in London.

If you've made it till the end, I hope you appreciate the efforts of this post, and at the very least, I've proven myself to not be a complete vegetable or Reddit swamp monster.

If you're interested, please drop a private message: an introduction and proposition would be much appreciated.