I'm looking to explore my kink for discipline. As I've read about it, I've come across a couple guides involving realistic punishments via CBT. So rather than having my ass spanked, I'm looking to have my balls spanked.
I'm into CBT but I've read this can still be used as a real punishment/deterrent if you start with a quick, ruined orgasm. The reason this would help also makes follow-through difficult: I get that post orgasm clarity thing and am no longer turned on by the idea. So I need to find someone willing to get my consent beforehand and then not let me back out once we start, someone willing to ignore my complaints or groans.
To be clear here, I'm not looking for sex. I do get turned on by the idea and the memory of the event will surely be fodder for later, but if I'm enjoying it in the moment then that breaks the fantasy of really being punished.
I originally posted this as an M4F listing but a woman on here asked if it's not about sex and it's not supposed to be enjoyable, why does it have to be a female? I couldn't come up with a good answer, so I'm reposting this as M4A.
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