I am a romantic at heart. I want to stimulate your brain and your heart just as much as your body.

I want to earn your trust and respect, to make you not just feel good or special, but comfortable and secure. I want to make you feel seen and heard and valued as a person, to be someone you can depend on to make you smile and feel good again after a difficult day. Someone you can vent and overshare to without being judged, and yet trusting and knowing that I will still be honest with you. A sounding board for your ideas, hopes, dreams, and….. desires.

I want to build a deep mental and emotional intimacy, until you are dripping with lust and desire and craving to serve and submit to me, if only because you know I have your best interests at heart and will reciprocate all of the same effort, energy, and attention that you give to me.

I have a lot to give. I am looking for someone who wants to reciprocate. This isn’t meant to be a chore. But it’s also not a game. I’m not expecting or looking for some deeply romantic, exclusive, life-changing relationship. But just because it’s not “serious”, doesn’t mean it should be careless.

With the prose out of the way, let me keep it simple…

Me

• I am 28, 6’2” tall, former competitive athlete, conventionally attractive: dark features, freckles, big red lips
  
• Patient, kind, confident, playful, generous, sweet, [emotionally] intelligent, passionate, nerdy, creative, curious, love learning and trying new things, very open minded and eager to grow and expand my perspective
• Down to earth, very good with words, communication, teaching, helping, peacemaking, and conflict management
• Business & entrepreneurially minded, strong work ethic, big ambition and imagination
• INFJ
• High sex drive, very kinky

Hobbies

Swimming, working out, hiking/nature, traveling, dancing, snowboarding… reading, writing, drawing, baking, cooking, piano, coding, video/board games, movies/anime/TV series, etc.

Kinks

Oral, praise/worship, orgasm control/edging, overstimulation/gooning, dirty talk, dirty names, spanking, [mutual] masturbation, light pain, light choking, sexting, semi public/risky play (aka covert exhibitionism), teasing, toys, tasks, corruption (to list a few)

Limits

Age regression, animals, urine, scat, diapers, rimming, blood, violence/abuse, cucking, femdom

You

• 22–35, give or take. Not super picky here, as long as it makes sense.

• Submissive. While I enjoy playful teasing, I prefer someone more service/pleasure oriented rather than a full on brat. I want to have fun with you, I don’t want to have to put you in your place every single time we talk.

• Ideally high sex drive, sexually open and curious to explore, able to adapt and be flexible, eager to learn about me and put in effort, and enjoy giving / receiving attention & affection

• Someone who resonates with some if not all of the following: genuine, warm-hearted, compassionate, sweet, thoughtful, intelligent, open minded, curious, passionate, enjoys talking about different things, puts in effort, has various goals, dreams, and hobbies, and is good with communication, texting, etc.

Basically, be a good, decent, human bean.

Dynamic

Despite the rather serious tone, I want something light hearted, pleasant, fun, playful, encouraging, productive, and even a bit sweet. * Online. Mostly text / voice memos. * Every dynamic looks a bit different. I want us to get to know each other and build it our way. * Setting a loose schedule for when we can chat/play. * Emotional, mental, sexual reciprocation * Quality effort, not necessarily quantity * Verification required at some point, once comfortable. I have a simple but guaranteed method. * Preference for Telegram.

What I Am NOT Looking For

• married women
• drama
  
• dishonesty
  
• immaturity (nothing to do with age)
• ghosting
  
• marriage, romance, moving in together
• men / dick pics

Message Me

Please include: * A bit about yourself * What you liked about my post * Why you think we might be a good match * Anything else you would like to share

Bonus points if you include a picture. I’ll reciprocate :)