Hey everyone, in my search for that special someone, I figured I’d give this another shot. I have a pretty specific idea of what I’m looking for in a partner but don’t let that discourage you from saying hello, what I’m really looking for is a connection.

First a bit about myself. I’m a 28 y.o white male currently living in the Northern VA area. Physically I am about 5’11” and about 190 lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, average build. I work at a bank full time which keeps me busy. In my free time I like to read, write, listen to podcasts, watch tv, gaming etc. I enjoy most sci-fi and fantasy type media. I also have a passion for history and enjoy learning in general. I consider myself to be a fairly intelligent person and I enjoy deep conversations on a variety of subjects. Good communication is also important to me and, I believe, vital to a successful relationship.

My time in the bedroom is very much driven by kink and I’m definitely a dominant partner. I have a fairly high sex drive and and I’d love to find someone equally horny and perverted and whose kinks match my own. As for kinks, there are far too many to list but a few of the main ones are: Oral sex and deepthroating, cock and body worship, degradation and humiliation, objectification, bondage, roleplay, breast and nipple play, CNC, somnophilia and all kinds of control. Feel free to ask if you have any questions about any of these, I’m more than happy to discuss it. I do have experience with BDSM dynamics and I am definitely looking to incorporate elements of it into any potential future relationships. What exactly that means is up for discussion and negotiation with my future partner.

As for said special someone, I’ll endeavor to be as specific as I can about what I’m looking for in a partner:

Physically I’m looking for a female in the age range of 18 - 28 who is in at least decent physical shape. You must also have good personal hygiene and take care of yourself physically and mentally. Personality-wise I’m looking for someone smart with a sense of logic, creative and passionate, submissive but not meek or passive and able to initiate sex rather than just being a participant. I’m not looking for a slave, I’m looking for a true partner. Obviously we should also share interests both in and out of the bedroom.

Sorry for the long post but I felt all of this was important to get out there. If you stuck around and read the whole thing, thank you. And if any of this resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you. If you decide to message me, please tell me a bit about yourself and let me know what state or country you live in. Thanks and have a wonderful rest of your day :)