I am a big fan of using soft bathroom play as a tool in d/s games. I love the feeling of having this kind of intimate connection and control.

I have been working on a training program similar to conventional potty training, but for adult submissives. I would roleplay as a trainer who over time teaches a sub to surrender more and more control over her privacy and her body. This is the sort of thing you might be into if you get off on feeling embarrassed or humiliated and/or love the feeling of having regular opportunities to earn praise from a superior.

The training works as a series of levels. The sub unlocks new levels as she progresses, and the intensity can be dialed back as needed. This is an art.

Here are the levels:

Level 1: Loss of privacy. Sub has to report whenever she pees via text/voice, pics, or in person. She will also get instructed on the proper way for a slut to use the toilet, including consequences. This level is baseline and can continue for the length of the training.

Level 2: Loss of autonomy. Sub is only allowed to pee at predetermined times (e.g. every two hours). This level can me maintained long term if the sub has a regular schedule.

Level 3: Loss of agency. Sub is not allowed to pee until she gets permission (exceptions allowed for work, etc). Endurance at this level varies by sub, most can only last a day at the start. Extended this time can be a point of focus for training (“do you think you can set a new personal record for me sweetie?”)

Level 4: Total power exchange. Sub is not allowed to ask for the bathroom, her trainer manages this for her. She is as dependent as a house pet. This level requires serious attention and is only realistic on a short term basis. I find it is ideal for events, gatherings, or long trips.

All feedback is welcome.

Message me if you want to have a private conversation or inquire about how to apply for training 🧻