Real life isn’t like porn and cuts directly to the action (well, at least mine isn’t). Let’s begin at the beginning and go on till we come to the end; then stop…it’s both obvious advice and probably not something that happens so often when people want to jump into something right away. Interested in getting to know you as a person to see if we’re compatible and looking for the same things. Basically someone who wants to talk about anything and everything from the mundane parts of their life to sex/fantasies/kinks. I’m a fairly realistic person so I feel like the odds of finding matches are so low. On the flip side, after years of being immersed in tv/movies that depict meet cutes and “the one” I still believe there is a chance for something unexpected.

I know that this can be a line in the sand for a lot of people so I want to be upfront about it, I’m in a relationship. My partner and I understand that one person can’t meet every need so it’s OK if there are other people in our lives that provide pieces that are missing. So what else about me? I'm in the US and live in Colorado. This is probably no way to sell myself but I’m a pretty basic person. My days pretty much consists of working during the day then reading with the tv in the background at night. My most recent read has been a book about Asian American identity and trauma. I mostly watch sitcoms, cooking shows, and sports. I cook and bake a lot, it’s something I really enjoy doing and seeing the reaction of people when they eat my food. Occasionally I’ll go biking, hiking and practice my photography. I have a lot of houseplants and garden in the summer. I like to think my life is fairly boring, definitely not the worst problem in the world but it would be nice to meet new people and mix it up a bit. Don’t have any expectations for anyone that replies, we can just get to talking and see if the conversations flows. I know this was probably the tamest post in this subs history but I’m not someone who wants to jump in right away and I like the buildup, the anticipation, the foreplay. Tell me something about yourself and lets get started.