You dont know where to find it. I want to keep things really concise because nobody wants to read an incredibly long advert. Thus, the following is a snapshot and if your interest is piqued, I’d love to further elaborate in DM’s.

Please do not reach out if:

You’re unwilling to send photos of yourself, I don’t wish to speak with phantoms. You’re looking to meet irl asap. I am not comfortable with that until we’ve got a steady rhythm. You have no interest in getting to know me a bit before diving into things.

About me: I am looking for a loving and intense dynamic with an intelligent commutative woman that begins online and which eventually leads to us meeting in person. I have a very busy professional lifestyle and don’t have much time to date, let alone narrow down the pool to those who will indulge my tastes. I don’t do ONSs or flings, therefore my body count is relatively low for someone my age. I prefer to establish trust before getting physical.

What I’m looking for: again, this is a very reductive outline but I’m happy to dive into my specific fantasies/desires via DM. I am lookinf for someone who is hyper sensitive with a very high sex drive, who gets off easily, hard, and repeatedly, to pretty much any sexual stimulation. You want a degradation-heavy dynamic where your partner reduces you to a free use toy, makes fun of you for getting off so easily and so hard, forces you to degrade myself physically and verbally, and makes you feel like a brain-dead set of wet holes.

You get off multiple times a day, are relatively petite and objectively very tight.

Which leads me to my main point: nothing makes you cum harder than anal stimulation, you are am a very serious masochist, so the fact that it hurts just makes it feel better. You never ask partners for it because you're so embarrassed by the sheer feral, euphoric, and desperate state that it puts you in.

You want to explore this with a partner who is willing to take control of it. You know that you want it deep down, because your body fucking loves it. But it’s the last stimulation you'll even inflict on myself. You need a heavily anal-oriented power exchange where my partner decides when my tight little hole is used, how it’s used, and how far it’s pushed. Basically, you want a dominant that will degrade me into exploring this filthy little secret of mine until I’m openly begging for it.

You orally fixated. I love having my mouth and throat abused, passing out from oxygen deprivation or vomiting and being made to lick up the mess are highly compelling scenarios for me. You could give head for hours. You want to worship my balls, swallow wads of spit, lick your cum off the floor, drink my piss, and eat my asshole like a filthy slut. It's OK you're home now.

So ultimately a dynamic where vaginal stimulation is the rarest. Your cunt is only for breeding and that’s why it’s the least used hole. I'll break you down to an oral and anal toy. You’ll get off whenever, wherever, and however I tell you to. You deeply enjoy sending voice notes of myself talking dirty or getting off. I would love to take a solid dynamic to an in person relationship if we get on well over a decent amount of time.

Other interests: orgasm control, breathplay, anything that appeals to my masochism, public play, cnc/reluctance, some exhibitionism, age play.