Hi there! :) I am a 30 year old single mom who is experienced as a sub and have been practicing kink and D/s relationships for eleven years now. I have also been involved with the local community for around a year now, and would like my partner to either be involved in the community or is willing to be.

I am looking for someone who is ready to be vulnerable and put into the work to have a relationship. Also, one who has the intention of getting to know one another beyond a surface level and is always looking to grow as a person. Consistency is extremely important to me and effort equals interest. I know what I want and I expect my partner to as well. Also, therapy is a must.

As for kink wise, I am a brat and looking for a D/s relationship that can migrate into more M/s. A successful kink relationship prioritizes fostering trust to encourage more submission and more dominance. I need a partner that I can have a really good flow with a Dom/sub feedback loop. I also need a partner who will accept that I am wanting to take the relationship super slow to ensure trust is properly there. I will not engage in any D/s dynamic for at least six months to a year, but I do enjoy scenes and am willing to engage in kink play on a consistent bases after at least three months of getting to know someone. I also expect the vanilla relationship to be as much of a priority as the kink relationship. We are all just people at the end of the day, no one is a kink dispenser.

Some of my vanilla interests are: Video games, reading and writing, listening to podcasts, and watching documentaries. One of my life passions is learning so I am always trying to learn more things as much as I can.

Some of my kinks include: Impact play, rope and suspension, sensory play and deprivation, fear play, wax, mind fucks, and orgasm control and denial. One of my favorite things in a dynamic is giving up my pleasure to my Dominant. I am also service oriented and the more I can trust my partner the more I am able to give up and want to serve. There are more kinks I have than just these but that should give you an idea.

Some soft limits I am curious about or want to explore more are: Humiliation, CNC, cage play, choking, and water sports.

My hard limits are: needle play, scat play, gun play, diaper play, tickling, age play,  heavy nipple pain, cuckolding, anal, anything with feet, metal handcuffs, mummification, pet play, pony play, whips, belts, words or phrases that insult my intelligence or body, clothespins, abrasion, blood play, latex wear, spit, yelling

Shoot me a message if you are interested. Look forward to meeting you :)