I'm sure you ladies have about 1,000 emails to wade through, so I figured I'd post this and see what happens.

I've been in New York for about 10 years now, and like everyone, I've had good and bad experiences dating in the city. I've had great relationships with wonderful women, fun and unattached sex, and a few first dates I wish I could have gone invisible during.

I recently went on a date with someone from Feeld and they mentioned that a few of their girlfriends have had success talking with people from Reddit, which honestly kind of blew my mind.

I have no expectations here, so I'll just lay it all out.

Like every other guy posting here, yes, I enjoy sex. I have a pretty high sex drive. That being said, I'd also like to find my person. Is it too much to ask to find a best friend that you have incredible sex with?
I'm 50% vanilla and 50% kinky. I'm traditional in a lot of senses, but I also love to get freaky in the bedroom. (Happy to share my kinks if this goes anywhere)

I'm passionate about film, reading, music, and comedy. I've got a well-paying full-time job and I know where I want to go in life.

Physically, I'm 5'7, fit, white, and queue eye roll, I'm handsome (happy to share pics)

I don't consider myself to be superficial, but I do have my preferences physically speaking. I don't have a generic type, nor am I looking for someone with a photoshopped IG body, but I usually prefer someone relatively fit/healthy. Again, don't need a woman to be super skinny to feel attraction.

I'm a gentleman, so drinks are on me if we go out. Would love a brief video call before meeting up so we can test chemistry enough to decide if we want to meet up (it's cold and I don't want either of us to make the trek if we're not gonna feel each other)

Well, let's see how this goes.