We’re a couple living near Munich, looking for one-time or regular encounters with another couple, single female, or single male who shares our preferences. (Also, we travel pretty regularly to the Frankfurt area and we may also go to Lower Saxony.) We’re quite into the rougher side of things, not necessarily bdsm, but we like rough sex, slapping, verbal degradation, and just generally find sexuality a lot more exciting when there’s a bit of a power struggle involved. The girl is submissive and the guy is dominant, and we’re ideally looking for submissive girls or dominant guys as well, or people who enjoy playing both roles.

We’re open to people in the 18-35 range, and we expect good hygiene and at least reasonable physical shape, but experience with groups or couples isn’t necessary. Even if you’re mainly looking for good sex without drama, new adventures, or even just new experimentation because you’re still inexperienced, that’s fine with us, as long as you’re into the idea of threesomes.

Just to be clear, when single guys are involved, we’re not interested in the whole cuckold dynamic where the second guy wants to be in charge and show how he can please the girl or anything like that. When we bring a second guy into our bedroom, it’s because we both like the idea of her being objectified and “used” by two guys at once. The dynamic we have in that case is kind of unique. If you want to “use” her, you ask her boyfriend for permission, not her, and she has no choice about it (of course, as long as she agrees that she finds you attractive enough beforehand). When we bring a second girl into our bedroom, we also expect her to accept being the “second girl”, which usually works well with submissive but shy girls who enjoy the “protection” of another girl when experimenting sexually. Also, although neither of us is entirely bisexual, we also aren’t afraid of touching the same gender, though it’s not really necessary either.

About appearance, she’s 165 cm and blonde, and he’s 183 cm and dark-haired, both fairly thin. We’ve been together a long time and involved others in the bedroom a number of times, so you don’t have to worry about being involved in drama in the relationship.

Please be ready to chat a bit to see if we match before exchanging pictures. We’re fine with just chatting if anyone wants to, but we’re not into sexting.