Hey so I know this is about to be a really long post so sit down and get ready or scroll to the bottom for a TLDR lol
Sooooo hi, I’m 23 and I want a best friend that I can explore with. What does that look like? Well I want us to be able to be normal BFFs day to day but also be able to help each other explore our sexuality and fantasies. I have a lot of fantasies I constantly find myself thinking about but haven’t really tried yet and mainly because they require a female partner who’s on board or I just would really like some trustworthy support.
Before I get into some of my fantasies, I’m really open minded and non judgmental so these kind of go all over the place haha. I also am kind of a sissy so it’s kind of like split where if I’m my day to day self as a normal masculine male, I tend to be way more dominant than anything, open to being submissive though. If I’m dressed up and everything though, I’m super submissive. Sooooo hopefully that explains some of my dynamics, which really means I’m looking for a switch as well or at least someone who’s open to being switch.
Day to day dominant me really wants to have a free use, toy/slave like partner. Where humiliation and depredation is used a lot, worship, and tasks are given. I like being able to pick out outfits and give daily/weekly/monthly tasks. One of the example fantasies I have is that I’d really like to have a small get together and use my partner as a ‘waitress’, dressed provocatively, and that I can offer to guests. One the same side though day to day masculine me is open to being dommed by a female partner, cucked, and has some fantasies that are in that area.
Sissy me, first off is so passable it’s crazy even to me lol (I can share pics to confirm) and really likes to be coddled but also dominated. The example fantasy I have here is that I would really like to hangout and get some help and tips with makeup, clothes, and body language, kind of just have a girls night that sometimes turns into me being ‘bullied’ and maybe even forced to do stuff to you and toys. Randomly one of these nights though I get forced into doing the real thing with an actual guy instead of a toy.
As far as I can think of my only hard limits are the usual illegal stuff, scat, blood, or like actual blackmail. There might be others but that’s why we should communicate lol. I’d also really like to help you explore your fantasies too, so please feel free to share yours! I don’t want this to be all about me lol. There are also some fantasies where I just want to see or hear about you doing things so I can live vicariously since there are some things I flat out can’t do hahaha. I’d really prefer IRL although I’d settle for online with the right person and vibes. I really need you to be 18 obviously. I’m DDF so I’d expect the same from you, and I’m big on personal hygiene soooooo, please be too haha.
TLDR; I’d be a really versatile, open minded, awesome BFF that you can explore the world of kink with ((:
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