As a progressive, left-leaning, feminist man, I've always had an internal conflict regarding some of the things I'm attracted to.
I don't believe I have any backwards thoughts about female figures. I've found myself attracted to all shapes and sizes of people. But what I do find myself hopelessly involuntarily attracted to are some of the trappings of traditional femininity. High heels, dresses. I like make up and I'm fascinated and allured by striking or elaborately made up eyes. Painted nails and jewellery. Most of my partners have turned their noses up or rolled their eyes at these things, and while I've fully understood, it's left me feeling a little cold and ashamed about my private thoughts.
In short, I'm looking for someone who enjoys these things. Enjoys taking their time and experimenting with their appearance in these ways, and who would appreciate a man who would appreciate it in turn. I'd love to be talked to about these things, to listen to your hopes and frustrations regarding such things and to be allowed and asked for my opinion. I want someone I can openly fawn over and could treat and spoil; who would enjoy that, rather than scoff at it.
If this strikes a chord with anyone, I'd love to chat.
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