I train my partners to be pleasure slaves - to be absolute perfection when it comes to satisfying a man's needs, and in order to do that, I need blanket sexual consent - I can do whatever I want with you, any time that we're together. Women agree, not because they're weak, but because they know they're strong enough to handle it. There's no safe words in life - you just focus and push through, and doing so makes you stronger and more capable. All training, education, and self-development is based on the principle of repeatedly challenging yourself.

My technique is to keep a woman in a state of arousal, where she is close and stimulated and eager to serve and learn. I get her there with rough handling - the body responds and the brain follows - and then keep her there by denying her the release of orgasm, leaving her on the edge where she becomes affectionate and desperate. I use a little pain to motivate her and emphasize the loss of control, for example spanking, squeezing nipples, light slaps, but nothing harmful or beyond her tolerance.

There are two ways that women are allowed to orgasm with me. The first is a slave orgasm, which is a forced orgasm - I restrain her and then use a toy, one of mine or a favorite that she brings and shows me how she uses on herself. The second is a slut orgasm, and these orgasms are rare and difficult to earn - at a minimum they require my cum inside her. All of this is conditioning, training a woman to associate being restrained and inseminated with her own sexual pleasure.

I expect a lot from a those that I train, and I do my part by giving my students my full commitment. I consider it my responsibility to understand them uniquely, and to help them improve in whatever way is important to them, and I never take anyone for granted. Whatever a woman needs in terms of my time, attention, expertise, etc, she gets it because she's earned it. I am a natural mentor and teacher in many areas of my life and have a unique talent & appreciation for it.

As to whom I am looking for specifically, it is someone like me who wants to build a very intimate and productive relationship with a safe partner. I don't do hookups or one night stands, and I definitely don't meet people at hotels or who are on business trips. I am only interested in people who want an ongoing dynamic, something that looks from the outside like a FWB setup or even a relationship - let's see what works for both of us.

You should also be someone who doesn't need the "dom personality", because I don't have it or want it. By the "dom personality", I mean someone who presents themselves as perfect and with all the answers and who never had to overcome any challenges because nothing was ever challenging for them. When you spend time with me outside of the "classroom", you get someone who is personable, thoughtful, resourceful, honest, curious, considerate, and open about their own challenges, and I can tell you with absolute confidence that those are the qualities of a successful person. If you're 30 I'm sure you have this figured out, and if not, well, you'll get there...

If you like what you've read so far, hit that chat button, and you'll get a photo of me in the first few minutes of conversation so that you can decide if we're compatible. Then I've love to hear about some of your past experiences and fantasies plus learn a bit about you as a person in as much detail as you can give me. I am a writer, as you might have guessed, and people who contact me often have great stories, truly better than anything you'll find in romance novels. Look forward to hearing from you and working with you.