Can you introduce yourself?

I'm 25, in the Netherlands. Currently studying physics, white wine over red wine until the white wine is gone. About two years of BDSM experience.

What kind of Dom are you?

I would say that like many things in life, I don't fall neatly into one category. For one, I do exhibit certain elements of what one may consider a Gentle Dom, because I pay particular attention to someone's needs and am very giving in that sense. On the other hand, just to provide an example, I love impact play, and the best part of it is the reminder the next day.

Do let me know if you have a way to categorize someone very giving who does not hesitate to slap you around the bedroom.

How do I know that you are the real deal?

That is my responsibility to show you. Some people find comfort in reassuring words, others will proclaim that actions speak louder than words.

Above all, I am an open book in many ways and will answer and consider your questions thoughtfully. My commitment is that I will provide the space for you to explore and probe during our conversations without judgment or defensiveness.

Dominating someone does not mean that you are not allowed to ask questions or that you must blindly follow directions. You are allowed to ask, you are allowed to understand, and you are allowed to question if it does not feel right to you. Submission is earned and it is my responsibility to earn that.

What can I expect?

I would describe myself as fairly adventurous, and I love to explore new kinks and discover novel ways to implement existing ones. I am mainly looking try out control and power exchange, as these are two of my most recently discovered kinks, but i am happy to take any suggestions and see where this goes! I'm a strict but fair Dom and mainly focus on creating a balance between us that maximizes what we both get out of this dynamic. This means that I am not just interested in using you in whatever way I'd like(although that can be extremely fun with prior discussion) but would like for us to work together to develop the dynamic. As any good Dom should, I believe that any boundaries set should be very strictly adhered to in order to prevent any toxicity or violation of the terms under which the dynamic operates. I also feel aftercare is integral in maintaining a healthy dynamic and take a lot of enjoyment in providing it to whatever extent it is necessary.

Where is your full kink list?

I'm into exhibitionism, control, tpe, orgasm denial, facefucking, spit play, cumplay, waxplay, degradation, humiliation, body writing, bondage, sadism(light), freeuse, tit/nipple play, impact play(spanking, slapping, flogging), choking/breathplay, anal, power exchange, sensory deprivation, pet play and quite a few others that don't come to mind right now!

limits are scat, gore, extreme knife or blood play, mutilation, ageplay and beastiality .

Tell me a bit about yourself

A brief description of myself: I'm 6ft, 75 kg, black hair and eyes, goatee and manbun, glasses, olive skin, slim athletic build from gym, 7 inch cock.

Outside of kink I'm quite interested in cooking(love experimenting here too), mma, formula 1, science, technology and travel(just completed my first hitchhike trip last summer)

What do I do now?

If youre interested, feel free to hit me up and tell me a little bit about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you!