People on Reddit find it hard to believe, but when my wife and I agreed to a certain kink, first in our relationship and then in our marriage, I didn’t know what a hotwife was. I’d heard of swinging of course, but that wasn’t us. I haven’t been with another woman since committing to my wife, and it’s been not only stated, it’s been stated me playing with others isn’t an option. As my wife has said, on more than one occasion, “it’s not fair. But it’s how it is. I’m sexually available… you’re not.” I wouldn’t have it any other way, I mean it.

She’s had my permission, if not my encouragement, to bed other men when she feels the “lustful spark”, when she feels the “sexual connection”.

It’s led to some intensely erotic memories. I still indulge myself on thinking about them on days like this:

*Her grad school days, when we weren’t married. The casual confession that the previous night’s study session went overtime when her friend-with-benefits decided to release some stressful tension in the sheets.

*Her Mexico trip with her girlfriend Toni (and I’ll get back to Toni) during our engagement… two men in one week with one being at the same time as her girlfriend. The infamous threesome. I’ll never get over how intensely hot it was to hear about it from her… and from Toni.

*The subtle hotness of taking erotic topless photos in bikini bottoms on our vacation… sending via snap for the pleasure of her boy-toy back home. Something about texting him “can’t wait to see you when I get home” as she laying naked in your arms post-coitus.

*The boyfriend… Jake. That was a truly difficult one. He was the first time I ever got to watch. To see it develop until something of a long-distance romance… was hard. The jealousy was real… the heart-ache was real… and oh boy, I got off to it.

There’s a few more stories. I’d love to discuss further. That’s why, my friends… I’m posting.

We practice discretion. Closely so. With the exception of one regular man… who lives just under an hour away from us… no one in our regular life knows. No one. Our families… would not be impressed. Honestly our friends wouldn’t be impressed… when you’re actively involved in a local church… obviously they wouldn’t exactly be impressed.

She used to have a friend… Toni. The single most outgoing and open-minded friend she has ever had. She was supportive of the idea she could be in a loving-marriage, but also… have her fun when she meets the right men. She was the kind of girl who could supportively ask my wife how the marriage is going… and also ask if she’s seen anyone special lately… and she was supportive of me, complimentary of me… she championed me. Her telling stories and complimenting me as the dream husband… it very much turned me on.

She moved. A few years ago. My wife and Toni keep in touch but only slightly. It’s sadly, out of sight and out of mind. I don’t have anyone who understands my wife and I and our kink. It’s the compliments and the wanting to know more that turned me on.

I need a new Toni.

Please understand a few things about my wife:

She’s not a slut. Very far from it. If you’re another man… she’s not easy to get with. It wasn’t easy for me when she agreed to go out with me for the first time, and it isn’t easy for guys that happen to meet her at the bar and take their shot buying her a drink. A new man is only taken to bed once or twice a year… it takes tremendous patience on my end to enjoy a the thrill of a new story. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Too much of a good thing would kill it.

If you’re a hotwife… or wish you could be one… or just get a little hot thinking about the idea… reach out to me. I’m just looking for a friend who knows…and understands.

I prefer Reddit chat to DM. I won’t leave the platform. No snap, no discord.

Please be 21 . No roleplay. Just chat… and perhaps friendship building.

I look forward to hearing from you.