Which seems to be nearly impossible. I thought I finally found someone only to be dropped after weeks of communication. So here I am, starting the process all over again. But now I’m beginning to think that maybe I’m not meant to be happy.

Here's a bit about me and what I’m looking for. I’m from central Iowa. I moved here a few years ago from the West Coast. I’m 42, 6’1” (if that matters), decent body, salt and pepper hair. I’m your average Joe or your neighbor kind of person. I don’t have kids. I know that’s a dealbreaker for many people, but I hope it’s not for you! I’m educated and work from home. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, reading, spending time outdoors, walking my dog, and learning new useless facts that I can dazzle people with.

I’m stuck in the dreaded dead bedroom/roommate situation at home. I haven’t had any physical interaction in over a year; which needless to say has been a challenge. I miss the emotional and intellectual connections the physical connection that isn’t there in my relationship (the spark is gone). That’s my way of saying I want to experience these butterfly feelings and sparks that I keep hearing about. In addition to all those things I have a kinky side that I would love to explore with a potential partner, but it isn't required, but it would be one of those “nice to have” things in a relationship.

I don’t have many “requirements”, more like “nice to haves”, which include a sense of humor and will laugh at my terrible jokes. A casual to frequent use of sarcasm, a love of learning, a horror movie fan, and someone who loves to travel and has a sense of adventure. Finally, I’m a legs guy, so smooth legs and someone who loves to wear heels would be nice. And of course, an interest in kink would be great as well.

I hope to hear back from you and get to know you!