I’ve been a Dom for several years now, both online and in person. If you have lots of experience in the lifestyle, that's cool! Lets talk about it! If you don't have that experience, that’s ok too. We can figure things out together (I really love helping a woman explore her sexuality). I live in Central California, but I travel around the state for work often. If and when we are close I would like to meet up and made good on all of the promises we tell each other. During the times we can’t, lets play online until you are begging for another visit from me.

Physically, I’m 5’10”, blonde hair, blue eyes, short trimmed beard, handsome. Rather than trying to describe my personality to you, I generally prefer to show you rather than tell you; but for the sake of giving you something learn just a little bit about me here are some things that I value about myself (in no particular order): confident, educated, good job, loyal, clean (both in hygiene and ddf, but I am 420 friendly), can hold a conversation, and most importantly not a creep. I'm respectful of boundaries, and great at communication, a good sense of humor, and high emotional intelligence.

Sexually I’m into an awful lot; I love trying new things. Just a small list include restraints, hair pulling, light choking, spitting, spanking, squirting, rimming (giving and receiving), oral (giving and receiving), anal, cumplay, orgasm denial, forced orgasm, free use, some public, and so much more. I could talk for hours and hours about my dynamic style and how I like to run things, but I want to leave that for our actual conversation. This post would be a novel if I tried to go into that! But to give you a small idea, I see my sub's submission as a gift to be cherished. It is my job as a Dom to make you want to do nothing more than continually give me that gift.

Nonsexually, I’m into travel, reading, cooking, hiking (I know that is a laundry list of cliche things, but I do enjoy them!) finding my love of working out again, a little bit nerd, a lotta bit kinky (ok, mostly nonsexually). Ask me to elaborate on any of that!

So what am I actually looking for? I want a dynamic that is primarily in person, supplemented by phone/online play. My dynamics are typically medium level protocol, but what that looks like depends on both of us talking about what we want. I'd like something casual, or slightly more than that. I also know that in dynamics feelings often develop, and I'm not opposed to that as well. I want to crave you, and I want to be craved. I want us to not be able to keep our hands off each other, but also have normal, out of dynamic conversations, as well.

My ideal sub would be naturally submissive (that should be a given, right?), comfortable in your own skin, and able to hold a conversation. Have time available for in-person play, so at least located within California or travel to it regularly. When you send a message, say more than just 'hey.' Tell me a little about yourself, or what it was that interested you about my post!

Let’s get to know each other, and share pictures relatively early, because let’s be honest… physical attraction matters. Let’s laugh and have some fun!