Thanks for clicking! I wasn’t sure to post here or in regular R4R, or even possibly OnlineAffairs, but I figured I’d start here and see how this goes!

I am recently separated from my wife of almost 25 years, and am now living in the guest room while we figure things out. I am really hoping to meet someone I connect with online - someone that I can can talk to about our days or be silly with, but who is also up for talking about our kinks, or flirting and sexting and maybe trading sexy pics occasionally. An ongoing online FWB that is OK with helping me rebuild my confidence here as I start over in life. I’m not saying “never” to an IRL meetup, but keeping things online is the plan for the foreseeable future.

I am 45, and live in Western NY (near Rochester). I am an IT/tech guy. I am a gamer - board games, video games, RPG’s, I love it all. I recently replayed the Mass Effect trilogy and that might be my favorite video game series ever. I like watching movies, and I do collect some stuff. I would absolutely describe myself as a huge nerd!

As far as sexy stuff, I really like Hotwife/slutwife/wife sharing, whatever you call it when there’s no humiliation involved. I think a partner who just gets so horny they can’t control themselves is the fucking sexiest thing, especially afterwards when she comes home and tells me all about it or (even better) has video of it we can watch as I reclaim. I definitely don’t want babies IRL, but I do think breeding is hot. Taboo topics are very fun sometimes. I’m not super into BDSM, or dom/sub stuff, but it definitely might be fun to explore some of the other kinky things I’ve only read about with someone who is really into it!

I don’t really have a physical “type”, personality and connection is way more important to me. So if you’ve made it this far and are interested, send me a message and let’s see if we have any chemistry!