Good afternoon, r/dirtyr4r! I have been involved in the pee fetish community for a bit of time now and have posted on this subreddit a few times before today. I am a 26 year old male dom, 6'0" athletic build with long hair and blue eyes, from seacoast NH with experience in the watersports / pee fetish community, giving bladder / bathroom control and in giving reverse potty training. I was first introduced to the fetish by an ex who enjoyed wetting herself and would occasionally embark in public wetting "accidents", a few of which I was lucky enough to see.
With some connections I've made through fetlife and a select few matches on dating apps, I've been able to offer bladder control and reverse potty training sessions to women who were looking to become diaper-dependent both online and occasionally IRL, each of which was an incredibly rewarding experience. It brings me a great deal of joy to be able to help someone push their bladder to the limit, hear about and contribute to their growing desperation, to give challenges like bladder teasing, sitting on the toilet in pants, using a vibrator, chugging / hydrating instructions, etc. and to be able to have played a part in their eventual loss of control and pants flooding.

I'd love to connect with women who enjoy or are interested in peeing their pants and having their bathroom use / bladder controlled, or are interested in the idea of reverse potty training. I am looking for an online connection and it would be a big plus to see pictures of accidents, pick out pants, etc. I'm happy to exchange photos as long as no identifying features are shared (face, tattoos, etc.). I'm also open to IRL meetups but only given the right circumstance and if a safe, respectful connection has been established. If you already have any experience with wetting, public wetting, any stories you'd like to share, or just curiosities I'd love to discuss those as well!

I completely understand that the fetish lifestyle is not 24/7 for many people, nor is it for myself, so making clear what times to partake in such fun is important. I wouldn't expect constant communication or obedience, nor would I demand anything out of you that you aren't comfortable with. In reverse potty training, having accidents, or holding it's important that groundwork is laid and some specifics, limits, intentions, and schedules are established for the sake of communication so this would be important too! And lastly, I'm open to chatting interests beyond this as well in our connection :)

If this sounds of interest to you, feel free to reach out! My DMs are always open.