Intellectual adult male seeks a compassionate and open-minded adult female submissive.  I value trust, communication, and mutual respect in exploring the dynamics of a power-exchange relationship. Let's embark on a journey of mutual understanding, growth, and fulfillment together.

I am in a relationship and I'm not looking to change it.  I understand if you don't wish to read any further.  There are worse things you can judge me for.

So yes, I'm seeking the holy grail, ark of the covenant and the lost sankara stones.  But not a crystal skull, that's just ridiculous.

I'm around North East London and Essex.  Due to the nature of what we do I'm looking for something long term.  I have a couple of decades of experience.

I do offer a psychological approach (not professional) and a view from the philosophy of Sung, De'Sade and Torquemada.

I'm 45, 6ft and just over 95kg, although I'm not unfit.  I'd describe my looks somewhere between a poor oil painting and a Picasso.  My sense of humour falls into the quirky, dark, macabre category.