I'm looking for a long term submissive.  My tastes lie across the majority of BDSM although I do have limits, but they are generally the ones that often come up.

In the interests of full disclosure, I am in a relationship and I'm not looking to change it.  I understand if you don't wish to read any further.  There are worse things you can judge me for.

I'm around North East London and Essex.  Due to the nature of what we do I'm looking for something long term.  I have two decades of experience.

So yes, I'm seeking the holy grail, ark of the covenant and the lost sankara stones.  But not a crystal skull, that's just ridiculous.

I do offer a psychological approach (not professional) and a view from the philosophy of Sung, De'Sade and Torquemada.

I'm 45, 6ft and just over 95kg, although I'm not unfit.  I'd describe my looks somewhere between a poor oil painting and a Picasso. My sense of humour falls into the quirky, dark, macabre category.