I've tried here a few times with mixed results, but I'm back at it! As the title suggests I'm looking for a sub that I can have some fun with.

I have been a Dom for a few years now enjoying time both in person and online. Ideally I am looking for someone that I can spend time with doing both. Depending on your proximity to Northern California (think Sacramento/Stockton, but not either of those places), online play would be important. But I would also want someone that was available to play fairly often in person.

My dom style is firm, yet gentle; strict, but understanding. I enjoy taking a protective and paternal type of dom role, though I'm not into age-regression play. A little bit of sass is ok from time to time, as I can enjoy giving punishments and tasks, but predominantly I am looking for a sub that enjoys following the rules. As part of tasks and rules you should be prepared to be asked to send pictures or videos from time to time (but I promise to be respectful of that and not treat you like a personal picture machine); also, sad that I have to say it, but before getting too spicy, please be ok with verifying.

I am 5'10, blonde hair, blue eyes, short trimmed beard, handsome. I am fun to talk to, witty, confident, educated, professional, and open minded. I am ddf (420 friendly), vaxxed, hygienic, left leaning in my politics.

Sexually, I am into a great deal of things, such as: rough sex such as restraints, hair pulling, spanking, spitting, choking, light slapping. Cumplay, oral (giving and receiving), anal, rimming (giving and receiving), roleplaying, squirting, younger women, and so much more! I am very open minded to trying new things and making fantasies come true. Limits include animals, underage, scat, permanent marks.

Nonsexually, I have just as diverse interests, I try not to let one thing define me. Yes, I love traveling and hiking and cooking (like everybody else). I also truly love stargazing, and other types of adventures. I enjoy gaming, sports, bad fantastic dadjokes, and so much more.

I am looking for a relationship. I want D/s to be a big part of it, but not the only part. I want to connect with you as a person, have a partner to share in mutual respect for one another (and then restrain you and fuck you like you have never been fucked before, lol). While some elements persisting outside of the bedroom, this part of me is something that would come as quite a shock to many who know me best. I want my partner to follow suit with that; I want my partner to be gainfully employed, but sneaks away to text me dirty things at lunch.

Speaking of the type of woman I am looking for... I want a woman that truly enjoys being submissive (either having experience, or just curious is ok!), is comfortable in her skin, and is open minded to trying new things! Be available to talk; a few messages here and there wont cut it. Be able to hold a conversation, both sexually and nonsexually, is important as well. I can't overstate that last requirement enough. Please contribute to the conversation or it gets dull really quickly.

If this wasn't too long and you weren't put to sleep, send me a message (and sweet baby Jesus, please say more than 'hi') and lets talk a bit! Lets see if there is any chemistry and we can figure it out from there.