You remember those moments where you just needed someone right then and there? Where the rules, the norms, and all of the concerns just melted away and your animalistic cravings just took over? I don't. But I really, really want to. I want to banter with you. Share funny jokes, make each other laugh. And then suddenly be able to think about nothing other than being with you. And I want a partner that feels the same about me.

About me:

42, Married, Father, white collar professional. My humor ranges between dry, dark, and dad. More of a non-fiction than fiction reader, but enjoy both. Same with television. l am 6’1”, 230, and still play sports. I work hard, and am a competitive, type A personality without being a douchebag (god, I hope so, at least). In the bedroom, I would like to think imaginatively deviant. I have an ENM agreement with my spouse, but she is not part of the play or discussion. I tend to be dominant, and love to facilitate people exploring fantasies, kinks, and desires, either in a D/s scenario or just as two people enjoying trying new sexual experiences. I'm ddf, straight-forward, respectful (unless you don't want me to be), and sane.

About you:

Younger than 40, female, generally in the same shape/fairly petite.

A good communicator, without games.

Actually enjoys sex, can comfortably talk about what you want, what technique works, and the ability to say "nope, not like that, like this" knowing that I just love good feedback and don't get offended by learning about a woman's personal preferences.

Actually enjoys giving oral; like you consider it a talent. (Don't worry, this is not a one-way thing. I'm not selfish.) Also, no aversion to (and preferably a big fan of) the end product of a man's orgasm.

Enjoys the rougher side of sex at times, can talk dirty comfortably and enjoys doing it.

Knows how to push a man's buttons to make them want you right. fucking. now.

Bonus points if you are generally a bit submissive when the bedroom door closes. (Or into D/s, which I'm open to, potentially, and have significant Dom experience.)

What's Next:

If I've caught your attention, or at least intrigued you, send me a message. There's nothing to lose and perhaps a whole lot of fun to gain. To ensure you've read my entire message, tell me one aspect of my post that intrigued you.