Sometimes I see posts from people on reddit from people who are claiming they are really young (18-20) and they're looking for a bull or claiming they're a bull.
It makes me really sad, in a lot of ways. I kind of get it if you're an old person. Maybe life beats you down and damages your self esteem, maybe watching porn over the years made you more comfortable being a voyeur, maybe after a while only really hurtful sex acts are able to make you feel anything.
I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21. And then there's people looking for upsetting experiences I don't understand at a younger age than when I kissed someone for the first time. Life is so strange.
To all the young adults out there: I hope you're ok. Please think about the meaning behind the things you do in bed, and whether they're hurtful to yourself or your partner. There was a post on r/sex I remember from a few years ago by a woman who said her partner was suicidal after a consensual cucking. I hope her partner is ok, and I hope he finds a different partner who wouldn't consider doing that to him.
I'll be 30 in a little over a year. Where did the time go?
Hit me up if you want to chat. Maybe you're feeling the late night sads like me. Mono people only.
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