First things first, drop all expectations around my age. Let’s step into this with clean slates, open minds, and cautious but excited hearts.

I should start by telling you that I’m not married, and maybe I should be. I do believe I’m fairly modest, but I’m a catch and a half apart from a tiny problem I have — I adore married men. Not for fleeting exchanges or to fix a night-long void in their lives, but I have found that I enjoy being… God, don’t make me say it… the other woman.

In fact, I have a wonderful man in my life right now. He’s been married almost as long as I’ve been alive and he’s not leaving his wife, nor am I asking or hoping for him to. He’s wonderful, and thoughtful, and treats me well, adores taking me out for dinner and how the other men stare or are eager for my attention, and he’s so intelligent and inspirational… I could go on but this ad is about me, not him. The point is, I have but one complaint about him… he doesn’t live here. When he’s in town or we travel together things are fabulous, and when we talk through the day I’m a happy girl, but when he needs to pay attention to his wife or turn his phone off at the end of the day… I am wanting.

So, I’m looking for you. The man who isn’t states away. The man who wants to talk about my art and our days and your hobbies and our dinner recipes. The man who makes me smile at my phone at the end of the day, and inspired me to think of ways to distract you from work in the morning. The man who understands that I’m not looking to just get you off.

I’m highly educated, cultured, and this is not my first rodeo. While I consider myself fairly submissive in the bedroom, my partner has to earn that through mutual comfort and chemistry… and a heck of a lot of jokes :p you’ll find that I have a huge heart, I love music, art, and all things creative expression. I’m a huge foodie, and a huge flirt, and probably best at my flirtation techniques when food (and martinis) are in the mix. And I’m a talker, holy COW is this getting long. Let me wrap this up and put a bow on it.

I look like this, take it or leave it :p

If you think you’re a man looking for romance, who knows chivalry isn’t dead…. Who is looking for discretion but missing the spark that comes with dating and connection and getting lost in evening kisses and giggle fits and cinnamon sangria and being wrapped up in one another through the night… and run on sentences!!! Jokes aside, I’ve been fortunate the last few years to always find fun, to sometimes find love, and excitedly find the surprise of connection with the right married man who fits into my life. If you give me your best, I’ll give you mine, and if it works… we’re magic, baby.