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The intellectual stimulation excites me. I am looking forward to the witty banter, the non-important small things we share, which allow us to revel in sweeter things.

I am lonely. It’s been years in the relationship, and I want someone who wants to invest in me as much as I do them. I am a relatively easy-going guy with a type A personality at work. I love my kids to death and spend a lot of time investing in them and just being a goof ball. Well spoken, educated, with a dash of handsomeness. I cook most nights and enjoy throwing myself into the kitchen perfecting a recipe. There are always two books on my nightstand, and I use my library card religiously. I have all the dad jokes and enjoy being irreverent but countered by being sought after for my thoughts and opinions on things. I am 6’3, married (it’s ok if that not your thing, I wish you well on your search) fit and enjoy a good cocktail, conversation, and a conversation full of Gifs. I am the last person in my group you would expect to find her. I am a normal guy with normal activities looking for a deeper connection. Raw, intimate, emotional, real. Being generally active is part of me, I enjoy a good (or many) true crime docs/podcasts, and you can always find a documentary on a watch list. (if you need a recommendation, I am your guy) I come from all over the world and have a broader world view. I am confident in who I am and in what I am looking for.

On the darker side of things, I am looking forward to intellectual chase. Being Dominant is part of who I am and enjoy exploring the darker side of that. (I will leave that for a later conversation but suffice to say I revel in the mind calisthenics and seduction of the Dominant/Submissive relationship. This is part of me, and I consider myself a high sex stimulant person. But this is caveat-ed by wanting the deeper connection with one person, its reached by exploring together.

I am looking for a relationship. That is what this is between two people ultimately right? I want you to be free to be yourself and be you. Dancing is something we will do on a date, laughing deeply and until we hurt will be a must. Looking for just one person, not multiple people once we have connected. You should be comfortable sharing your day-to-day life with me and looking forward to sneaking a quick peak at your phone for that text I just sent, and the devilish grin or snort you let out. Life happens and not looking to rush into something but take our time to develop organically. But a balanced conversation is a must.

If this sounds like you, or something you are wishing to pursue, feel free to reach out and tell me what song no matter where you are will get you on the dance floor.

Traveling is able with the right person #US #Seattle #Portland #WestCoast #PNW