Want to be the focus of an older, married dad's wanton desire? I miss the the moments of sexual electricity where I can't think about anything but craving that someone. Of them absolutely craving me. Maybe you are sending me a sexy little message, and make me ignore my wife. Or you are the reason I can't get any work done in my home office? I want lust. I want someone that wants to keep me aroused and then blow me away in bed, and fuels the same desire in me.

About me:

42, Married, Father, white collar professional. My humor ranges between dry, dark, and dad. More of a non-fiction than fiction reader, but enjoy both. Same with television. A bit of a dad bod, but still muscular (6’1”, 230). I'm hyper competitive. I play adult sports and compete in nearly every other aspect of my personal and professional life. Unfortunately, I work all day and have a dead bedroom with an unadventurous wife. I am anything but. A better way to describe me would be imaginatively deviant. I'm straight-forward, respectful (unless you don't want me to be), and sane. I'm straight-forward, respectful (unless you don't want me to be), and sane.

About you:

20s-30s, female, generally in the same shape/fairly petite (I'd love to throw you around a bit, after all).

A good communicator, without games.

Preferably married or attached in some capacity, but willing to consider single.

Actually enjoys sex, can comfortably talk about what you want, what technique works, and the ability to say "nope, not like that, like this" knowing that I just love good feedback and don't get offended by learning about a woman's personal preferences.

Actually enjoys giving oral; like you consider it a talent. (Don't worry, this is not a one-way thing. I'm not selfish.) Also, no aversion to (and preferably a big fan of) the end product of a BJ.

Enjoys the rougher side of sex at times, can talk dirty comfortably and enjoys doing it.

Loves sending pics with words to match to fuel desire (after trust is established, obviously.) Knows how to push a man's buttons to make them want you right. fucking. now.

Bonus points if you are into D/s kink, or are just generally a bit submissive when the bedroom door closes. (I'm open to full D/s, potentially, and have significant Dom experience, but find that a more set D/s dynamic is a bit difficult in the cheating context.) My kink list is available upon request.

What's Next:

If I've caught your attention, or at least intrigued you, send me a message. There's nothing to lose and perhaps a whole lot of fun to gain. To ensure you've read my entire message, include the phrase "Lust" in the subject line of your message.