I don’t think I’m a complicated girl. In fact, I think my situation is pretty straightforward. I adore intimacy beyond just sharing my body (or explicit thoughts and / or photos) with a man. I get excited by banter, intelligence, kindness, and care. A strong man who has a protective demeanor but balances it well with humor humility — but I’m not looking to change my life for said man currently.

In fact, while I am single, I have a situation with a not-so-single man who fulfills most of my needs. When he’s out of town he’s supportive, consistent, thoughtful and sweet and when he’s in town he’s all of those things in addition to being very physically satisfying. The issue is of course that at the end of the day, his attention shifts to the woman he’s married to and I am all worked up from the day’s conversation or knowing he’ll be visiting soon.

So I’m looking for someone who is understanding that I’m not looking for monogamy, but I’m also not looking for anything lacking meaning. I’m looking for someone to get to know, someone to laugh with, a man who is preferably dominant leaning, but I don’t mind a more vanilla fella, and enjoy an evening call when things get a little hot over here~

Please be 35 , 40s is the sweet spot but I’m open to men older than 40. Tell me a little about yourself :) I respond well to effort! I’m not necessarily looking for in person, but I’d be open to the right man.

Im an artistic girly. I adore music, the opera and ballet. I spend my free time playing piano, painting, taking long walks, getting in a pole fitness class, shopping, volunteering, spending time with my girl friends and the like~ I adore a fluorescent martini, reality tv, tight hugs, and men who wear yummy cologne. I love affection, and sweet words, and it’ll be obvious that I dig you pretty quickly if I do. Im 5’1” with some noticeable curves, & I look like this.

Alright, let me end this before this gets too long. Hoping to find some palpable chemistry, sexy voices, kind souls, and endless fun!

Cheers, T