Before we start, I'm looking for someone who enjoys playful teasing and light humiliation, but not anything abusive. I appreciate when someone understands my insecurities and uses them to engage with me. I have a complex about not feeling as attractive as I used to be. If you can treat me with dominance, honesty, and care, while also being flirty, that's a huge turn-on for me. The anticipation and tension of a potential romantic connection is kinda hot, don't you think?
Curious about Midwestern girls like me? Well, as a typical corn fed Nebraskan girl, I can tell you. In high school you'll receive attention from the cutest boys. However, as time goes on, you may start to notice changes in your body. Your belly might not be as flat, your booty might not fit into those shorts anymore, and your once perky breasts may have lost some of their perkiness. When these insecurities creep in, what do we do? We might indulge in another milkshake, hoping it will improve our lives. Like me, you might find yourself in this situation.
If you continue to be in a long-term relationship like I am, you might realize that your boyfriend, much like mine, is losing interest. It's only natural, considering he has seen you at your best, and you're not feeling your best right now. It's understandable that he might not be as attracted to you anymore. But let's not forget that he's not exactly in great shape either. Maybe he's been indulging in a lot of beer, and you notice him struggling to catch his breath or fit into his truck. You might catch a glimpse of your mom's reflection in the window and worry that you're starting to look like her after pregnancy and settling down.
I find it attractive when someone can identify and playfully tease my insecurities. I've hinted at this desire before. I appreciate men who are infatuated with me but also enjoy teasing me about my flaws. It excites me when someone is genuinely interested in me but can also playfully bring attention to my imperfections. So, go ahead and tell me what assumptions you have about me, my appearance, and my life. You can even share your thoughts on what you see in my future. Just make sure to make it a long read that leaves me blushing. x