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My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. Everything is great, but I've been developing a fetish about black men. It all started when a friend of mine started dating a black guy. She couldn't stop telling me and my group of friends how big this new guy was, how better sex was and how much he was satisfying her in bed. She would also use a lot of cliches and stereotypes about black men like "Once you go black...." or "Black is better", etc.
It didn't affect me at first, but if I'm being completely honest, it triggered something inside me.
I love my boyfriend very much, and I would never cheat on him, but I've been having these intrusive thoughts about black men, and I'm afraid it could develop in something else that I don't want to happen.
I'm looking for help from other girls that can help understand, if everything my friend has been telling is true, or if she's just making stuff up to make me and my friends jealous.
Are black guys really that much bigger than white guys or it's just a myth? And, even if they were, does bigger always equals better? Maybe it's just some few girls that enjoy bigger sizes, and not all girls?
If you're willing to help me save my relation, please contact me via chat or DM with a brief presentation about yourself! Thank you very much!
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