Hello! I'm strictly in search of a play partner. This means mainly sessions of some sort. I'm in a relationship but I have some free time where I will be alone for long stretches. (This is a consensual arrangement with my partner.) So I'm just looking to play around. That could mean a steamy back-and-forth exchange, or a full-on video session, or anything in between. I don't have the capacity for anything ongoing at the moment, so it would just be playing when we can. Not to be crude about it, but really we don't need to spend a ton of time "getting to know each other" in any deep way. If that dynamic doesn't work for you, I completely understand! Good luck in your search! But that's what I'm after. It's better if emotions do not get involved. In your message, please give me some idea of what a session with you might look like:)

Me: I love giving over complete control. I love the idea of a powerful domineering presence who wants to devour and dominate me completely. I want you to control EVERY move I make. I'm really into the idea of force and CNC, but obviously that is difficult to accomplish online. Maybe we can play with ways of doing this (pushing my limits, making me feel like I have no choice, etc.) I become veryy obedient when I am in subspace, and my main goal becomes pleasing and impressing. The lower and smaller you can make me feel, the better. This can include:

Degrading me mentally- Using words to degrade me and playing with my emotions. Using my insecurities against me. Playing mind games to leave me confused about whether you are happy with me or not. Make me second-guess myself.
Degrading me physically- spitting, face fucking, putting me in an exposed position where I feel humiliated, making me perform tasks that make me feel low, etc.
Hurting me- I need some sort of pain in order to cum. All kinds of pain, the more creative the better. I especially like nipple and clit pain, particularly with clamps and other creative means. I love toys, restrains, gags, etc. But again, some of that is difficult online.

You: You are sadistic. You get off on my pain, humiliation and discomfort. The more I protest, the harder you become. You are more into the Dom/sub Master/slave dynamic rather than the ddlg dynamic. You prefer to be called Sir or Master over Daddy. On the other hand, you let me know when I am doing a good job. You tell me how hot I am making you. You are firm and strict and you reward me when I meet your high expectations. Ideally you live in the USA or somewhere where time zones won't be too much of a barrier.

Limits: Showing face, scat, anything illegal, public or "risky" play.

Disclaimer: I'm not a BBW in case that's your thing! I'm on the average/thin side and have B cups. Just don't want any surprises/disappointment there.