I'm looking for a relationship with a female leader who inspires respect. Ideally, this would be in the form of someone gently dominant, at least at first. Or at least a combination of dominant and deeply compassionate.
I need someone unafraid to provide structure. I have (diagnosed and medicated) ADHD (Primarily Inattentive, not Hyperactive type). I am intelligent and capable but, without structure, I do very poorly in my work and personal life, and tend to drift. It also means I have problems with authority where it occurs in forms I don't respect (unearned positions of power, rules for rules' sake, weak leadership).
I need a lot of stimulation to get dopamine going in my brain, and tend to mostly seek this through exercise. But I could benefit highly from someone who understands how to motivate their submissive (and plays into my natural desire for dopaminergic rewards).
I'm not looking for a kink dispenser, but true and shining female leadership, within and outside the bedroom. I want to wake up admiring you not only for your body, but for your power and ability to inspire.
The opposite side of the coin is that I have hyperfocus for the things I find rewarding. So you would be training a loyal and highly driven sub.
I'm 31, relatively fit, and primarily looking in Colorado Springs or the Denver area. Major plus if you understand or have experience with ADHD.
Submitted respectfully,
-HypnotizeMyCock
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