Hello, I'm planning on moving to Charlotte in two weeks. I'm happy to chat with people from around the world but I'm not really up for a serious long distance relationship at this point in my life.

I'm looking to make meaningful connections. Ideally, I'd like to find THE ONE but that seems like an awful lot of pressure to put on a single Reddit post. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people so even if we just chat for a night, a few days, for the REST OF OUR LIVES, I hope you'll reach out.

So who am I? I'm just another 30 something guy working in tech. I love my career, thought it can be stressful at times. When I'm not sifting through Stack Overflow, I love to cook, watch terrible reality TV and listen to way, way too many podcasts. You can always ask me about my current YouTube rabbit hole or favorite conspiracy theory if we run out conversation topics.

I'm happy to trade pictures as soon as everyone is comfortable to verify mutual attraction and all that (no hard feelings if I'm not your type), but just as a brief overview - I'm 6'2, with shortish brown hair, blue eyes and a full beard. I love to workout and I love to eat delicious food which leaves me with a bit of a dad bod? I'm never sure how to describe myself and these things.

I don't have too much of a type. I seem to be attracted to curious, kind, and funny individuals. I tend to be drawn to people that can make me think, that see life as partnership, and that doesn't mind challenging me or pushing me occasionally (I'm happy to return the favor).

I'm primarily a dom leaning switch but labels aren't that useful, imo. Every dynamic / relationship is different. Kink-wise, I'm into just about everything. I love all sorts of power exchange kinks, spankings, oral, toys, teasing, restraints, ddlg, and lingerie. My hardest limit is scat, most other things can at least be negotiated.

I'll do my best to answer all responses. I'm a pretty open book, so feel free to ask me any questions if I missed something!