Hi!

I want to start with saying that we can also try to become friends after we have sex. I mean, long-term friends and not necessarily a fwb. That's how special it would mean to me, being 33. But of course I wrote this post to try to lose my virginity lol. So if you only want a ONS and say farewell then I am happy too.

I am someone who likes walking and cycling. :) And I am also a bit of a creative person but it's with ups and downs. I am 1,88 m tall and I weigh 67 kg. I am super easy re what you want to do with me. I like going out but I also like staying home to relax. As long as we can have normal conversations and laugh a bit then I am a happy guy. :)

Hopefully experiencing sex with someone will give me new insights and a boost of positive energy. I am sure meeting you will help me in some way.

Kind regards,

Chris

Appendix 1: My (in)experience with women

Women have always been interested in me but I didn't want a relationship (btw, not that much but every now and then). Not because I didn't like those women but because my mind was busy with other stuff. And that's still the case and I can explain why if we meet. I don't feel like explaining online.

Apart from the above women have also shown some sort of sexual interest in me like cuddling in a park at night. Things like that happened a few times with different women but it didn't result in losing my virginity. Again, my mind was busy with other stuff. That sounds awkward and it probably is. I didn't even ask for a phone number in such cases.

In hindsight I regret those situations as I am finding out this year how difficult it is to find someone online. I tried using Tinder and Bumble for two weeks but I didn't like it. I am not even looking for love and only want to meet one woman. So I didn't like seeing two hundred happy faces of women with limited amounts of text in bios and who (almost?) all say they want a serious relationship. I mean, I am open to try a serious friendship with someone but not involving love.

After that I've only tried to find someone through reddit but it seems impossible.

I also look different now. I let my hair grow and I started wearing glasses. Sometimes women still show interest in me so I think there's nothing wrong with my new look. But it is maybe ineffective for online dating competing with all those men. I don't know. Is there something wrong with my photos? And again, I am not interested in a relationship. So that makes my chances of losing my virginity so low.

Is there really nobody who wants to help me? I am a respectful and calm guy. And I am sure we can have some fun together, of course not only sex.

Kind regards,

Chris

"Something's f**ing wrong with me" MGK - I think I am okay.

"It's times like these you learn to live again" Foo Fighters - Times like these. I still like the Glastonbury 2017 version. Shall we go there together next year? ;)