The guy I'm talking about was married at the time, now divorced, and used to live in an area by our house in our neighborhood before the divorce went through. He's obviously older but he was only in his mid 40s at the time.

He was married and had a son who was slightly older than me, and I was good enough friends with him that we would hang out. His dad was friendly enough but it kept crossing into something more creepy the more I paid attention to it. I remember going to his pool and him complimenting my body at the time, and either touching the muscles in my arms or changing clothes knowing I was there, getting completely naked doing it and making eye contact with me.

Turns out I wasn't imagining things and he was into men and had been fucking around for years, got caught, and started getting divorced. Among the guys he had been fucking around with, he was apparently the worst one at keeping the secret, and now that it was out he began acting like he didn't care about exposing other men too. I know now that he exposed at least 2 other married men for cheating. One of these other men wasn't publicly exposed, but I found out through him. He did it pretty bluntly too, he had my phone number, he began texting me hard proof that my dad was one of those guys.

Mostly pictures dad would send him or this guy would take, screenshots of chats between the two of them, so I wouldn't doubt him. He ended those first messages basically with "either tell him or don't" and when I didn't, he acted like he could get away with it, both with what he was doing with my dad, and what he was telling me. That pushed him to start hooking back up with my dad, and use that as a way to feed me more dirt on him. I'm not sure if it was a power play for him (literally bragging about fucking him), but it feels like it.