Hi!
I am a tall and fit Dutch guy (1,90 m, 70 kg). My main interests are sightseeing, art and music. Sometimes I paint and sometimes I play a musical instrument. I am easy re what you want to do with me. I like going out but I also like staying home to relax. I am also easy re food. Overall I am an easy guy who doesn't want to complain. Certainly not if you want to help me. :) If we can laugh a bit and have normal conversations then I am a happy guy. This also means that it's not important for me what your education level is. I get along with all kinds of people (I have a MSc degree myself).
Women have always shown interest in me (not that much but every now and then). So I think I am not ugly although I am also not a model. Hmm or... a modelling career sounds fun too. Any scouts here?
Everything re sex is new for me so I am very thankful if you can help me becoming a bit experienced. You can't imagine that. You can't!
We all have had different experiences in life. I am not interested in love and never have been before due to what I experienced. One woman who chatted with me said she felt "too broken". Those words hit me as I recognised I am also like that. It is the result of a few different things that happened in my life. It's also why I never asked for a woman's details (like a phone number) even though it was clear that said woman was interested in me and I liked her too (happened various times). Not because I am shy but because I wasn't interested in love or casual sex. I always had my focus on study and work.
The above doesn't mean we can't have fun together. I try to do my best (got a MSc degree, bought a nice house) and most of the time I have a positive mindset. I really look forward to holding someone in my arms. But love is most probably out of question. That's where being "too broken" comes into play. It doesn't mean that I am depressed. The concept of love seems just so strange to me after all these years of being single. I can read about what it means or see couples, but somehow I am not able to picture myself loving someone or starting a family. Maybe through experiencing sex it will give me new insights. Like, sometimes you hear that a fwb results in a serious relationship. But I am also looking for just sex now as the idea of remaining a virgin all my life is not something I like.
I am friendly, calm and respectful. Also, I went alone to a festival this year. I didn't have a ticket but I wanted to view the festival from a hill nearby. And I easily socialised with the people there while I didn't know anyone. We had great fun together until early in the morning. And then I slept at the couch of a guy I met there. So I am also kind of easy-going. :)
So... do you have a couch? Or... I think I have one. ;)
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