Um hi,

I spent a few weeks building up the confidence to just put out what I am looking for. Trying play a constant guessing game with what I want by answering other ads is clearly working out for me... 🙃

For as long as I can remember, I've had an extreme attraction to women who wear nylon tights / thigh highs. Anytime I see ladies in public wear them, I can get so locked in and distracted, I'll walk right into objects. (It's absurd how many times that has happened.)

In my adult relationships and sex life, I've been fortunate to have my partners fulfill my request during sex or for a sexy evening out. I've always been appreciative but apprehensive about requesting partners to wear nylons for anything. I am looking for a person who loves wearing nylons all the time and letting me just scratch (figuratively and literally) my worship kink. What I get out of this kink is getting satisfaction from feeling the texture on my partner's leg. I also enjoy seeing my partner's legs in cute designs, textures, colors, and patterns. Tightly woven fishnets are acceptable if it's hot outside, but they barely meet the same satisfaction I get from solid nylon. Cotton thigh highs are also cute af. Aside from this very specific kink, I self identify as Dom/Switch. I float between somewhere as a Soft dom but can ramp up to being a Sadist. It will all depend on what that person is looking for and what is mutual between us. We can go over a kink list to see what will work between us.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who is a sub/switch and 25-40 years old. Physically, I come in at 5'4" at 140 lbs. I am not shy about height differences with me having experiences dating some partners being 5'11" but that's not a hard requirement. Overall, I am looking for someone I can physically be compatible with.

I would want to be play partners or FWB hanging out to start. If you practice ENM, that's cool for now but if things get serious, I'll want to commit. My end goal is to be in a monogamous LTR.

Health: I got formally diagnosed with depression and adhd in January 2022. My earlier years of partying are coming back to haunt my current health so working out is something I do now. I received a vasectomy in July 2022 and have been clean of STIs since July 2023

Vanilla life:

I own a house, have roommates, a car, and my pup (5 year old Chihuahua).

Professionally, I have a stable career in corporate video production that pays the bills. Creatively, I've been starved for years but I'll figure out how to rekindle that artistic flame eventually…

Personality wise, I am more introverted than what this ad or IRL actions may suggest. I am a little bit more tame than I was 10 years ago. I'm 420 friendly, drink and smoke the occasional cigarette. I try to stay active with Snowboarding in the winter. I am a hermit these days but impulsively go out for dinner, drinks, and delinquency every so often. These impulsive journeys remind me that I am still living life. I do plan to travel in the future and would like someone to keep up with my sporadic pace.

In my free time, I'll watch stuff on YouTube like: how a dishwasher works, how to do very basic home maintenance work, watch a guy in japan who lives with a ghost, backyard boxing, and so much more. I'll play pretty much any game you will throw at me. I have a weird motivation of working out to pro wrestling matches. My music taste is all over the place, I can share a Spotify list to give you the breadth of my tastes.

This long post is to give you some sense of my personality and what I am looking for. If you reach out, I am hoping you can match this vibe.