I'm an ethically non-monogamous SWM sub-leaning switch in Sunnyvale. I work in tech and enjoy computer games, tabletop RPGs and card games, Star Trek and other sci-fi. I also like to dine out, go to gaming venues, movies, or comedy shows and so forth. I'm a light drinker, non-smoker, d/d-free, car-free, and child-free. Pics available upon request.

I'm looking for an ethically non-monogamous woman, partnered or unpartnered, any ethnicity, 25-50ish, who lives nearby to be in-person play partners, fwbs, dating partners, or life partners.. Please be a child-free d/d-free non-smoker, and interested in some of the vanilla stuff I mentioned above, as I want to connect on non-sexual and vanilla levels as well as sexual and kinky. My ideal partner would be an ethically non-monogamous Domme-leaning switch, but that's not a checklist -- the only part of it that's a requirement is "ethical". Let's meet and find out how best we fit!

As a sub, some of my interests are being teased, following orders, female body worship, having my partner control/ruin my orgasms, and cuckolding, though I haven't tried that one yet. A lot of my pleasure comes from feeling like I'm pleasing my partner, so I'm also open to trying some your kinks that I don't share assuming they don't violate my limits.

If I dom, it'll be mostly about what kind of experiences you want to have. I have experience with a variety of activities including bondage, spanking, breast play, figging, and consensual non-consent, so let me know how you like to be treated (or mistreated)! 😉

I insist on limits and safe words for both of us, regardless of our roles. When you respond, please let me know you read my post by telling me what you like to use as a safeword.

I look forward to hearing from you and learning what we might enjoy doing together. :)