Threesomes are on the mind because sex life used to have so much color 20 years ago! What happened? How did we get here? We stay in shape and nurture each other. The Mrs. says that she is sexually happy, but there is a sad look in her eyes when she says so.

We used to go to nude beaches, fuck outside, please each other orally in the car, have quickies in our friends' guest rooms with the door unlocked, and have regular anal play. Sex was a verb and not a noun!

Now, we still feel young and healthy. We are successful professionals and caring parents. We have a household, and we take family vacations. However, we have not been to a nude beach since college, the Mrs. says that she is not into oral or anal sex anymore, quickies are not her thing because she wants to cum too, and in order to have sex it must be scheduled a couple of days beforehand. Courtship must take place, the night out (date) is encouraged, and lots of foreplay before the actual act.

How did we get here? How did it become so complicated? Does everyone's marriage end up too complex like an old and overly bureaucratic country? Will the simplicity ever return?