Hoping my person is here, looking for great sex, and also a great relationship, and maybe not realizing they can have both.

I am very specific in what I'm looking for and actively/aggressively seeking my person, so I ask that you read my post in full and respond only if you meet the criteria, else I will immediately block you

You:

26-38M

Preferably local to New England (somewhat negotiable)

Single (no partnered/ENM folks please)

Will send a thorough intro message followed soon after by a sfw photo

Most likely racially white, sturdy/fit build, and conventionally attractive, well-dressed, and good hair. Not into piercings, excessive tattoos, excessive facial hair.

Educated/intelligent/erudite (at least a bachelor's, preferably more)

Ambitious with a successful and stable career. Engineers, scientists, doctors, and veterinarians to the front.

Good conversationalist with a really solid sense of humor and interests, passions, and hobbies. Not into gamers, sorry.

Politically liberal, feminist, anti-racist, and all that good stuff

Looking for a serious long-term relationship resulting in marital commitment and eventually a family

Highly affectionate in all ways

Good communicator with emotional intelligence. Points if you're happily in therapy as well.

Sexually: above average endowment, enjoys passionate, frequent, and fun sex, leans dominant, extremely skilled in pleasure as well as consent and care. We can talk more about this topic in chat.

Me:

White, curly dark blonde hair, blue eyes, curvy and a little chubby, but well proportioned (5'4 185lbs), generally considered quite attractive.

Well-eductated, young professional with a very stable but potentially somewhat mobile career.

Atheist/anti-theist, prefer you be as well, or at least agnostic or uninterested in faith.

Initially somewhat shy/introverted. An extroverted partner historically balances me well. I am quite chatty though, as well as witty.

Highly affectionate, and has often felt that I cared more than past partners. Looking for someone that makes an equal effort to make me feel loved. I'm not super needy and codependent, and I enjoy my personal time, but I still like to feel deeply understood, supported, loved, and desired.

Enjoys literature, travel, good food (cooking or restaurants), intellectual stimulation, time spent with animals or children, good coffee, naps, and work-life balance.

Feel free to ask anything else!