Me: I am an experienced Married (poly) Dom/Daddy looking for an S-Type who enjoys a good conversation as much as they like to play.

You: are 25 years or older, want to communicate your needs and wants as both a person and a sub, and are in need of a good spanking. We don't have to be friends, but we need to like each other's company.

Though to be clear, I still talk about books, movies, tv, podcasts... ;)

We both have lives, I am not looking for someone to be my everything (not close any doors, just saying), but if you are like me then you want to chat, share jokes, learn new thing...enjoy a good spanking?

I am 5' 10", weigh more than I like, have blue eyes, walk with a cane, and have brown hair that is about half grey (I am hoping to achieve silver fox status sooner rather than later). I have been a Dom since I was 16 and like to think I know what I am doing, but that is really up to you to decide

I like to describe myself as a flexible Dom, I want to get to know you and understand your kinks and needs and then adapt my style to what you need. I can be very soft or deeply intense as you need. However if you were to ask my kinks then I would say bondage, impact play, giving tasks/goals, brat taming, CNC, anal, and well so much more. I don't see them as requirements so much as lots of options I am compatible with. If you have a kink I haven't tried, I will almost certainly want to try it with you.

I am an engineer (I design electronics and write software); have written a novel; occasionally go outside and expose myself to the radioactive ball of gas in the sky; 5x vaccinated; and enjoy learning, photography, etc.

While online is fun, I would prefer someone who is local to the greater Portland, OR area — or at least visits regularly. Sharing pictures and other ways to turn each other on when we aren't together is important to me, so please be ok with that before you respond.

I am going to ask you to verify within the first 48 hours. This is non negotiable. Include the name of the last book, show, or podcast you listened to.

I sometimes write BDSM erotica, if you look in my profile you will find a pinned post, in case you want some homework. Start off by telling me your favorite color, then lets talk and get to know each other, and see where things go from there...