Bio:
31y/o, 5'9", 165lb, athletic build, East Asian, tan skin, high cheekbones. I am single with no kids and work as a director of a large company in a high-pressure role. Recently re-located to Los Angeles.
What I am Looking for:
An ongoing relationship with someone innocent of life experiences. Someone who has always been in awe of the grand scale of this world and the depth of experiences to be had. Someone who, while filled with desire to live the full spectrum of life, hasn't had the time, resources, or confidence to turn their admiration of these wonders into personal stories yet.
Someone who values trust, respect, communication, and positive growth as core tenants to live by. I want to mentor & support you; help you grow both personally and in the pursuit of your ambitions. It is important to me that you have an openness to develop a deep & meaningful bond and that you are looking for someone to enable your physical & personal dreams.
I am looking for a partner who is ready to exchange anxiety and fear for faith and security. Someone who is ready to relinquish the heavy load of navigating this world on their own to someone experienced and ready to take that burden from you.
Hobbies & Interests:
I enjoy the outdoors. Whether it be riding my motorcycle on the mountain switchbacks, hiking through foliage-covered trails, or embarking on other adventures, as long as there is an opportunity to explore the beauty of nature together, I am game.
Attending live music events is also another interest of mine. It can range from attending arena concerts and intimate boiler-room sets to headbanging at Bass Canyon or shuffling at Coachella. Hip-hop, EDM, and R&B are my favorite genres but I enjoy all types of music.
Traveling is another hobby of mine. I have lived in 6 different cities and have visited most of the notable places across the US. Along with travel, I love discovering & trying new food. I get similar excitement from a reservation at a Michelin star restaurant or uncovering a mom & pop hole-in-a-whole joint. When we travel together, finding new local cuisine will always be something on the agenda.
Although I enjoy going out, some of my favorite days are spent at home. There are just not many things that can beat the cozy comforts of being home with someone you care about, cooking a meal together or grabbing our favorite takeout and having a lazy day indoors reading or binging shows.
My Philisophy on New Relationships:
I would like to first develop a solid foundation of friendship where we can connect on a personal level without any dynamics at play. This is important so that we can get to know each other's core selves prior to layering on aspects of a dynamic that may muddy the waters.
Once we both feel like we've established that foundation, we can move on to a fairy standard protocol of communication, discussion, and consent. We take this time to learn deeply about each other. Some things we would cover include likes/dislikes, curiosities & interests, soft/hard points, ideals, goals, etc. The objective coming out of this is to give each other all the tools and info we will need to make sure both parties are fully understood, in control, and respected.
From there, we would formulate and agree upon the parameters of our dynamic. And after we have had time to grow together in our relationship, we would periodically cycle through this process again to reassess & adjust based on what we learn about ourselves and each other.
Prospective Candidates:
I am primarily interested in meeting people who are in LA or surrounding areas. I am open to online/virtual communication first until mutual comfort is developed so long as the goal is to continue the relationship in person.
I am open to all ethnicities & hobbies/interests, ages 28 and under. There needs to be a physical attraction & emotional connection between us. I am typically attracted to girls on the petite side but am open to taking to anyone of healthy weight.
If my post resonated with you and you feel like we would get along, shoot me a DM with a short introduction. I will also be asking to exchange SFW pictures to ensure mutual attraction is there. I look forward to meeting you :)
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