Hey there!

Single guy here in Central NJ. I’ve done the Reddit thing before with some success and so I’m giving this another shot.

About me: I’m 32 years old and just started a new career as a software engineer after working in sales for about 10 years. I have my own place, truck, and my life is pretty well put together. I’m pretty adventurous when it comes to trying new things and I have a wide range of hobbies and interests. Some of them include coffee (specifically home espresso making), plants, music, aquariums (and animals in general), nature, and hiking. I live within walking distance of the beach and frequent it during all seasons. I also enjoy lots of live music, traveling, playing golf, card games, board games, and I love to snug up with someone to a good movie / TV series. I’m a big fan of napping. Ive been described as thoughtful, caring, weird, handsome, and sarcastic / witty. I love a good dark sense of humor.

Physically I’m 5’11 and 180 pounds. I have blonde hair and light greenish hazel eyes. I’m the “athletic” build but I’m not super fit or muscular or anything like that. I also have a lot of tattoos although people are generally surprised to find that out because I’m told I don’t look like that “type” (whatever that means).

What I’m looking for: I’m really open to anything as far as friendship or even a connection that develops into something further. I’m in a good place in life and comfortable with myself. I’d ask that you are also pretty well put together. To me that means you work, have a car, have some goals in life and things you are passionate about. It’s ok if you don’t have your own place. Honest and open communication are very important to me as is emotional connection. Of course if it’s just a casual thing I don’t expect a ton of that. I’m open to all legal ages and if you’re poly or married or whatever I’m ok with that too. As far as physical appearance goes I’m not super picky, but I’m not attracted to larger body types (average is great with me). I do value a healthy lifestyle. If we share some similar interests that would be great, but not a deal breaker for casual stuff. Bonus points if you have an alt/goth look, I’m a sucker for dark hair and tattoos.

Please message me with a thought out response and be able to communicate in a healthy, educated, and thorough manner. So I know you read all of this please let me know what your favorite color is in your response.