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In 2019 I rolled my car and broke my back, T5. Went to rehab and the doctors weren’t shy in telling me that my days of walking were past, and the last 4 nearly 5 years now with no movement in my legs has confirmed their prognosis (not that I doubted it).
I actually took it well. I think I’m just a realist, and realized that I couldn’t go back and change it, so I might as well move forward and figure out this new life. I did the whole rehab thing, spent a few months in the hospital and finally went home.
Slowly but surely I got my life back. I learned how to live completely independently, started working out again, went back to work, and even started grad school.
Well, once I settled into my new normal, I finally felt up to discovering sex again. It’s probably not a surprise that the first few years it wasn’t exactly a focus. But I was finally confident enough to put myself out there again. Not to brag, but I did well before my injury. I’m decently attractive, and capable. But after the wreck, there were so many doubts. Erections? Could I still please a woman? Would any woman still want me? Positions?
I had my first sexual encounter post injury recently, and it put a lot of doubts to rest. She enjoyed herself. I have options for a hard on. It’s still possible to go out and get lucky. And now.....I'm starting to feel optimistic again about my personal life post injury, even though I feel like I have a lot to discover still.
So if there are any ladies up for a casual conversation about the onslaught of sexual thoughts about this new life dominating my headspace, I’d love to hear from you. It’ll be fun.
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