I'm a 33 year old dom who is looking for the ultimate submissive either online or in person. I realize Oklahoma may be an interesting place to look for this, but hey if you are in the state you get some bonus points. If you are reading this out of curiosity and are going I'm new to this or I'm inexperienced how can I be the ultimate - it is more about your motivation, if you are open and willing to try anything once (after trust is established) that makes you the ultimate! Also, I am looking for a sub who is comfortable with phone and video calls and recording themselves whether thats in your lovely outfit for the day or you being naughty then I'm the dom for you. If that is something you want to get more comfortable with we can very much take it slow. I enjoy being very communicative even with voice and live video. I'm looking for someone that I can praise, send toys too, have fun with, and really learn about. I have a lot of kinks, and even some that are a bit out there and you get a lot of points if you are willing to explore them with me. I have a lot of experience with online subs through the pandemic, with several long-term ones. I have taken newbies and experienced subs under my wing, so I'm willing to build something with you if you are willing to build the dynamic from the ground up with me.

In addition to the dom/sub dynamic I'm pretty much a nerd. I like video games, museums, board games and more. I do want to get to know you as a person and help you in various areas of your life as well. Otherwise I'm here to cheer you on and be the person you can talk too in any circumstance as well as being the one to please you.

Physically I am 5'7, curly hair and a full beard, a bit of a cuddly guy but use that weight to control when I need to, and I have green eyes. When it comes to you I don't have a type. Seriously, it is more about personality to me (someone did tell me that those with curves always have the best personality though). If you are working through some things and trying to improve yourself I will gladly champion you with my praise kink and accountability.

Some of my kinks: praise, breeding/creampies, spanking, spit/drool play, name calling, squirting, exhabitionism, marking, orgasm control/denial, degradation, blindfolds, restraints, free use, pet play, and more

My HARD limits: scat, blood, needles