I've been chatting with guys on here for a while now and it always seems to go the same way. Boring messages from guys who just say "hey" and expect me to do all the work. I'm tired of feeling like I'm the one carrying the conversation and I'd give anything to meet a guy on here who knows how to get inside my head and flirt properly.

About me: I am a 20 year old Chinese girl from Malaysia. Even though I have only ever been in vanilla relationships, I know I have very submissive fantasies. Often mind desires lead me to places where I am being completely powerless to a dominant man's will. But so far, I haven't been able to find a man who can describe what he looks for in a relationship with enough detail to really get me excited.

Raceplay is an important kink for me, though I understand it's not for everybody. I would prefer to chat with an older white man, who has a degree of privilege that I will never enjoy. And often when I post saying I enjoy raceplay it just leads to guys just wanting to call me a ch!nk or a g00k and expecting that to drive me wild. Please understand it's more complex than that.

I am mostly just looking to chat and flirt and share fantasies. I have tried roleplaying before, and I am definitely open to it, but I usually find it underwhelming. Being told to "get on your knees, bitch" is just not enough of a setup for me. I need there to be a connection first.

My kinks include: Daddy, misogyny, bimbofication, CNC, domestic servitude, raceplay, condescending praise, cuddles, men who are smarter than me and the idea of being turned into a cam girl.

My limits include: animals, piss, gore, breeding, fisting, guys who cannot lead the conversation or have no interest in me as an actual person.

If you've read this far, I hope to hear from you. Please drop me a message that contains the word pineapple and explains why you think you might be what I'm looking for. Anybody who just messages with "heyyy" will be ignored.