i'll be honest lol i'm wanting something a bit more serious while also having some fun at the same time :) i've tried dating apps, hookup/FWB apps and nothing has come from them aside from scams. i had a thought and feeling to try reddit, so here's a little bit about me!

hobbies/interests: i write poetry (also used to write piano pieces), i also play piano, listen to all kinds of music, i go to the gym when i have the energy to do so (it's been a stressful and tiring couple of weeks, but i can assure you i'm working things out! no pun intended xD ) i also play video games and do photography sometimes when i go out on walks!

i'm a bit clingy and always craving attention while also showering whoever i'm interested in or talking to with the same attention i would love to receive! to kind of give a better idea, i'm the kind of guy who would send memes, funny/cute tik toks, voice notes/messages, and photos of myself/the photography i take while out on a walk (yes, with consent and if feelings are mutual i also send NSFW, but only with consent and mutual feelings about sending/receiving them ;) ) if you're not really one who feels comfortable with taking a nap and possibly waking up to 12-17 messages of whatever it may be, then please don't message lol :)

lastly, ofc, if you're interested then please message me and tell me about yourself! for any women who messages things like "message me back and i'll tell you about myself!" or just a simple "hi/hello, i saw your post!" with no actual details about yourself in your opening message then i'm sorry, but i won't accept your dm request :) no hard feelings! i don't like ghosting, let alone appreciate it happening to me however, this is the one dealbreaker for me and i do hope you understand where i'm coming from when i say these things :) i would prefer someone close in the same state, but i'm completely okay with you being elsewhere in the US and talking long distance for a while! maybe we could meet up at some point and go on a fun date? totally okay with the date being both SFW and NSFW lol.

go ahead and dm me! would greatly appreciate knowing what you look like and ofc i'll also send a pic of me! would like to ease into things a bit, i would appreciate the first pic sent to be SFW :D