About me, I'm 32, oh no I'm old!, I'm a gentle dom, but can be strict and rough when needed. I won't run your life or control you but I will be in charge and make sure you're taken care of and doing what needs to be done. Like drinking water and bettering yourself. Etc.

Here's what I'm looking for. Someone young 20s preferably, you don't have to be fit or thin but I do like my women to be smaller so I can throw you over my head. I love someone that's intelligent but also knows how to communicate well. I don't want any of these "I'm ok" when you're not moment. Tell me what is wrong or bothering you. I promise I won't be upset even if it's about me. I need to know so I can correct the situation and take care of you emotionally. I'm a pleasure Dom, my love languages are love and words of affection. You need to be ok with me tying you down and forcing you to cum for hours before I finally enter you, you also need to be ok with me not cumming every time because making sure my princess has gotten off is my big thing. That's my turn on. We will have a safe word and I'll always stop as soon as it's said, that's non negotiable, but I don't want you to say it unless you feel you have to. What I mean by this is if I've made you cum multiple times and you're satisfied that isn't a good reason for the safe word, at that point you can beg for me to cum or to stop. Now if something is hurting, you're about to pass out, or you need to stop for any reason then absolutely say it and I won't question it.

Sex however isn't something I will have with you until I am attached to you. It may be soon or may take longer but that depends on our connection. But there's a lot more to being intimate than just sex. I want to cuddle, and wrestle, and laugh, and go for long car rides to nowhere. I'm not going to lie I will be annoying as hell, I will constantly try to boop your nose and wrestle or tickle you, I will also blow raspberries on you any chance I get. I'm just playful like that with my person.

One thing that is very important to me is communication and trying to resolve issues. I've had relationships fall apart because my partner wasn't completely honest with me. How can I fix the problem if you don't tell me what it is? We will also have weekly check ins with report cards to make sure we are fulfilling each others needs, mentally, physical and emotionally. I want this to work damnit.

As for being submissive to me that doesn't mean you can't initiate when you're feeling it, and I will let you be on top and have your fun. But there will be no quickies, I will be taking over and making you cum until I feel you have had enough. That may be multiple times in one session or once multiple times throughout the day. When we are together we are committed to each other and agreeing to be there for each other at anytime for anything. I guess you could call it free use or cnc, which I'm ok to both of thats what you like, but I mean it more as always being there for each other's needs. Mentally, physically and emotionally. That doesn't always mean being there in person, but doing what you can in that moment for the other person. Ex: being at work and needing to talk, I will call you as soon as I can no more than 5min later.

For now my name here will be Lee or Sir. However I prefer Lee until we get to know each other. From there you can use my full name or Sir.

I'm 6'2 and a big guy 300lbs but not overly fat just rocking the dad bod. I'm getting back into shape. I'm exceptionally strong with very large and rough hands. Dark hair, pretty short at the moment because I used shave it. Full bear. You'll see.

Send me a message and tell me about your favorite book or hobby. I want to get to know you for you before anything moved forward.

I don't have a high body count (3) because I believe in quality over quantity.