Hi there! For the past few years I’ve been in a relationship with my actual SO. For the most of it it’s been pretty fun and sweet. However, for the last couple of years it’s like she stopped putting almost any effort into our sex life. My advances would go mostly ignored or turned away and I have stopped making them altogether. It feels like I almost lost the ability to initiate anything. I should also mention that my libido is a lot higher than hers, and while I understand that, her lack of actually putting some effort into my likes has been quite hurtful, while I always indulged in hers. I love pleasuring her and I’m not doing it because I actually expect something in return, it turns me on doing it. But at some point you start feeling neglected and it kills you off a bit on the inside when the other’s just laying there, waiting for you to finish then off and then if you didn’t manage to get yourself off in the process as well, well then tough luck. Seeing your partner enjoying you is a also a turn on. At least for me.
About me, I’m 24, 5’11” (1.80m), 196lbs (89kg), I work in tech, I enjoy playing team sports, climbing, motorcycling, the occasional book and a good movie. I also love snow and skiing. So nothing too fancy there.
Having said that, I’m looking for an online conversation with someone who I can chat about turn ons and turn offs, kinks, fetishes, rediscover everything that I like about sex and pleasure. I don’t mean to only talk about mine, but also yours, mainly find out things about each other together. I enjoy sending pics and receiving them at certain points in the conversation, when everything is consensual and it’s fitting the narrative. I’m not into blood, vomit, scat, pee or anything that extreme. Otherwise anything is on the table.
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