Now, I'm guessing that only a handful of people have actually clicked on this. After all, my age alone has probably put off 95% of the women on here. So, while I'm busy losing people's interest, let's get something else out the way; I'm separated but currently still living with my wife while we attempt to untangle all the different aspects of our life, including a young child.

And, I guess we just went from 95% up to 99.999%.

So, if you happen to the one woman left reading this - hello! Let me tell you a little more about me and let's see if you're still here at the end of it :)

I'm a professor; I'm English but I've been living in the Netherlands for quite a while (although my Dutch is still truly appalling, I'm afraid). I'm 1m83 (or 6'), 85kg (187lbs), dark hair, blue eyes, and (I'm told) a nice voice. I'm also told I look younger than I am, but I guess people could just be being nice!

I'm intelligent, creative, (vaguely) witty, flirtatious, err on the side of dominant, and (I like to hope) am rather charming.

I'm looking for someone who I find attractive, someone who I can flirt with, someone who makes me smile, and who just makes life just that little bit more interesting...

Where it goes from there, who knows? Maybe nowhere. But - in an ideal world - I meet someone who explodes like a supernova into my life and provides me with joyous inspiration. Age isn't an issue - if you think I sound not entirely uninteresting having read all of this then feel free to get in touch...

I realise that this is a pretty tame dirtyr4r post; so it's perhaps good to know that I'm anything but tame. But I'd like to build a genuine connection with someone before I put my belt around their neck and tell them they're my good girl ;)